It’s very likely that your children will want to know how your decision will impact their lives. Therefore, be ready to share this information with them. This may include where and who they’re going to live with, visiting schedules, and other details — just make sure that you don’t overwhelm them.

At the same time, it’s important to reassure them about what will stay the same, such as their friends, sports, school, and other daily activities.

🚫 Don’t share financial details or personal issues with your children, no matter how old they are.

✅ Remember to be honest about the things you know and don’t know yet. However, it’s advisable to tell them that, in spite of all the changes coming ahead, you expect that the family will be happier and healthier with this decision.

💡 Don’t forget to say “I love you” and let your kids know that you still care for them. It can be a powerful message for them to know that this hasn’t changed.

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